Therapy for Pregnancy Loss

compassionate support from a grief and loss expert

for when it feels like the rug was pulled out from under you

Common experiences during and after pregnancy loss:

  • You’ve never felt grief quite like this before

  • You knew this could happen but you never imagined it’d be you

  • You “did everything right” and ended up with this outcome anyway

  • You want answers to help you make sense of everything

  • It’s hard to function normally as if nothing has happened

  • Maybe your loved ones knew about the pregnancy, maybe they didn’t

  • Somehow it still feels taboo

  • You’re trying to cope with loss while also figuring out how to move forward

  • No one knows what to say

  • You’re having to let go of the timelines you started to imagine for yourself

  • You’re replaying the traumatic details

  • It’s hard to concentrate on day to day tasks with all this on your mind

  • You don’t want to “overshare” or “burden” your friends and loved ones

  • You’re afraid it will happen again

  • The uncertainty feels overwhelming

  • You’re realizing just how much is out of your control

  • It’s hard to talk about

  • Maybe this isn’t your first loss of this kind

  • You just want someone who understands

Sound about right?

Here’s what we might work on in therapy for pregnancy loss:

  • Anxiety management

  • Increasing understanding and self-compassion

  • Identifying reproductive trauma

  • Learning how to cope with uncertainty

  • Stress reduction and self-care

  • Developing communication and self-advocacy skills

  • Processing grief and loss

Online & In Person Therapy Options

Online

No traffic or parking needed, just some privacy and a decent enough internet connection. Call in as you are! Whatever makes it easiest for you to show up is fine with me and at this point I’ve seen it all. You can call into session between meetings or at the end of a long day. We’ll make every minute count.

 

In Person

I currently see clients in person at least once weekly, using my Washington, D.C. office in DuPont Circle. Whether you prefer to attend therapy in person, just want a change of scenery, or need an excuse to get away, I’ll be happy to have you. It’s calm, quiet, and close to plenty of cafes for a post-therapy treat. Learn more about my office here.

What Happens Next

We schedule a free consultation call

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This helps us get to know each other better so we can figure out if we’re the right fit. These calls are very casual and there is no pressure. I just want to help you find support so if for some reason I don’t seem like the right fit for you I’ll send some referrals your way within a week.


We schedule our first session

2

Personalized, specialized, high-quality therapy available to you online and in person. Maybe you’ll come in nervous or hesitant, but I’ll help you feel comfortable and confident in the process. I’ll ask questions that help me understand the context of your life and we’ll spend some time exploring your goals for therapy.


We settle into therapy

3

We’ll get to know each other and fall into the rhythm of therapy. I’ll help you explore what’s working for you and what’s not. We’ll work towards the goals you set using a blend of evidence-based treatment modalities. Therapy will be a place for you to process the stressors of life, gain understanding, and learn concrete coping skills.


You feel better

4

Progress is not linear, but I would say most clients feel at least a bit better right away. There is just something really powerful about sitting down with a human who cares. At the end of therapy my hope is that you’ll be feeling better mentally, emotionally, and physically. Whatever your goals are, you’ll be better equipped to handle life’s ups and downs.

  • "Haley is an extremely warm, compassionate, and thoughtful therapist, and she is dedicated to helping her clients through a variety of difficult experiences. As a fellow practitioner, I could not recommend Haley more."

    —Fellow Therapist

  • "Haley is a natural helper with a warm and caring approach. She's one of the best therapists in the area and a great choice for anyone seeking professional guidance that feels personable."

    —Referral Source

  • "Haley is a warm, compassionate therapist who brings a wealth of knowledge to her work. She strives to provide the best care for her clients and it shows in her work. She is deeply knowledgable about the perinatal mental health and grief work. I trust her as a fellow clinician."

    —Fellow Therapist

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